As surf continues to grip the island, many people are messaging in on our insta channel asking:
- “Is it too late to start surfing? I’m 30?”
- “Can I learn now?”
- “How hard is it to surf in my thirties?”
Now as I paddle out in my (late) thirties, it’s good to reflect and look back at my journey. There’s a unique blend of freedom and challenge that comes with taking up this exhilarating sport later in life. It’s a period where many of us find ourselves settled into careers, possibly families, and a routine that can often feel monotonous. Surfing offers a refreshing escape and a chance to reconnect with our adventurous spirit, but it also presents distinct hurdles that require determination and resilience to overcome.
Chasing Freedom
One of the most compelling aspects of surfing in your 30s is the profound sense of freedom it brings. Unlike the rigid schedules of work and personal obligations, the ocean operates on its own time. Tides, swells, and wind conditions dictate the best moments to surf, creating a rhythm that feels both natural and liberating. For those of us entrenched in the daily grind, this break from routine is nothing short of magical. This is both a blessing and a curse. Expect to miss many sessions as waves peel over on a Monday morning, during your Monday office standup, or perhaps on a random Thursday afternoon when you’re chock a block with meetings and responsibilities. Shit happens, and the initial FOMO is real fam, trust me, but you’ll mature and get over it eventually.
Then, and only then, surfing becomes a sanctuary, a place where worries about deadlines, bills, and responsibilities dissipate with each wave. There’s a meditative quality to being in the water, where the sound of crashing waves and the sight of endless horizons can reset your mind. It’s a reminder that life’s most precious moments often come when we allow ourselves to be fully present, embracing the here and now. Before you get over the fomo, you’ll sit on your board rushing to get your first wave, stressing to make progress. But this feeling eases. Chill into the surf session, whether you get one hour or the whole day its important for you to let your mind to relax and stay zen. Together now: “Ohhhmmmmmm.”
Physical and Mental Challenges
Surfing in your 30s isn’t without its challenges. For new surfers, the physical demands can be daunting. Paddling out to the break requires stamina, and catching waves necessitates a level of agility and strength that might not come as easily as it did in our youth. There’s also the inevitable wipeouts and the sometimes painful learning curve of navigating the board and the ocean.
The body in its 30s doesn’t always bounce back as quickly as it once did. Muscle soreness, joint pain, and longer recovery times are realities that can’t be ignored. This is where a commitment to physical fitness off the board becomes crucial. Incorporating strength training, flexibility exercises, and cardiovascular workouts into your routine can significantly enhance your surfing experience. The stronger and more flexible you are, the more you’ll enjoy your time in the water and the quicker you’ll progress. Do the extra push-ups in the morning, stretch and don’t be lazy. At times we all feel low and demotivated, but stick to the vision, you’re a surfer now so rock the identity fully.
Mentally, there’s also the challenge of patience. Surfing is not a sport that can be mastered overnight. It takes time to read the waves, develop balance, and gain the confidence needed to ride bigger swells. This can be frustrating, especially for those of us used to excelling quickly in other areas of life. Embracing the slow and often humbling process of learning to surf is a lesson in humility and perseverance.
You’ll suck sometimes
Oh and by the way, you’ll suck sometimes. Suck it loooosa! That’s part of it, and there will be moments where that little voice inside you wants to pack it in. You’ll feel like you’re getting nowhere. But guess what, you are! Every paddle helps, and sometimes it is true, the conditions just aren’t right for you – too big swells can put you off. But, when you wanna quit, tell a friend… they’ll laugh at you first, but then you’ll be back on your board, amigo!
Community and Camaraderie
One of the unexpected joys of surfing in your 30s is the sense of community it fosters. Surfing attracts a diverse group of people, all united by a shared love for the ocean. Whether you’re at a local break or exploring new surf spots, there’s an unspoken camaraderie among surfers. This sense of belonging can be particularly comforting for those who are navigating significant life changes, such as moving to a new city or transitioning into a new career. In this aspect, we’re blessed here in Malta. The community rocks. You’ll literally make your best friends when you surf in this awesome community.
The friendships formed in the water will extend beyond the beach. One of Bomba’s aims is to unite people and make sure everyone’s included, and no one feels lonely. Our job is to make flat days fun, so come party with us, come let loose and show us your wild side. Fuck it, we won’t judge, in fact, we applaud all forms of stupidity! Let that confidence shine baby, we’re all a bit whack, it’s all the salt we swallow!
A Lifelong Journey
Surfing in your 30s is more than just a hobby; it’s a lifestyle that can profoundly impact your overall well-being. It teaches you to listen to your body, respect nature, and find joy in small victories. Each session in the water is an opportunity to grow, not just as a surfer, but as an individual.
The beauty of surfing is that it’s a lifelong journey. There’s always something new to learn, a different wave to conquer, and a deeper connection to be made with the ocean. Starting in your 30s might come with its set of challenges, but it also brings a depth of appreciation and gratitude that perhaps only comes with age and experience.
So, to all the fellow surfers in their 30s, embrace the freedom, tackle the challenges head-on, and savour every moment spent riding the waves. The ocean is a vast playground, and it’s never too late to dive in and discover the thrill of surfing. Wanna be an office sloth, pack the kilos and feel bored, or do you wanna thrive in this phase of your life? You’re reading this so we know the answer – see you at the beach!
